David mused, “Of course this day is all about love but is there something special and unique about God choosing an appropriate helper. How can we really judge whether two people fit well together, or are made for one another? It often feels like that in the beginning of a relationship but why doesn’t it last? I once saw a series of pictures about being a good fit. Two nice round balls don’t necessarily fit well together. A perfect fit wasn’t two perfect halves of an apple but sometimes quite jagged pieces with rough edges that need to be smoothed out. Maybe that is why roses have thorns too.
Genesis 2: 18-25. It is not good that the man should be alone. I will make him a helper fit for him. This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh ”
Pope Francis. Loving another person involves the joy of contemplating and appreciating their innate beauty and sacredness which is greater than my own needs. AL 127